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My New Blog!

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Okay, so...

Am I dead?  Did I quit?  Did MINE'99 secretly have me kidnapped and sent to Abu Grabe?

No, no, no.  I'm still around and kicking!  I just took a vacation from the blog.  The reasons being:

1.  It was summer time, and it was too nice out to be shackled to a computer. 2.  I had a rather aggressive, semi-serious lady friend who kept me rather "busy." 3.  I was doing a lot of traveling. 4.  I wanted to get away from a lot of the negative nellies who have nothing better to do than to post their venom here.

So anyway, I was having such a good time NOT posting on the blog, I debated whether or not I wanted to come back at all, and just let the blog die.

But, like your common crack addict, I feel the need to keep running my mouth at the expense of my keyboard.  The problem is, I feel like I've outgrown this blog.  There's too much stuff I want to do (like video and podcasting, and all that good stuff) that my current blog software doesn't allow me to do.

Plus, this blog was so popular, the bandwidth charges every month were killing me!

So I decided that if I was gonna continue blogging, it would have to be with better software, and I just couldn't do that on this site without losing everything I've already written.

Therefore, I made the decision to create a NEW BLOG!  Faster... Stronger... Better... (same spelling mistakes...)

<a href="http://www.artofapproaching.com/blog">Introducing the NEW Meet Women Blog!</a>

(applause, applause, thank you, thank you)

So what's the difference?  Other than the look/feel of the site, not much.  It'll still be me, posting my ramblings and tirades.  I'll still talk about other people's stuff and new events and things like that.  There'll be a bit more multimedia involved too.

But most of all, it's going to be more fun for ME.  I'm really going to be focusing more on inormation and learning than the rumors and drama (though there will still be some of that).  And as always, moderation will be in effect, so the negative nellies will be held at bay, leaving room for more constructive dialogue.

For those of you wondering, I will be leaving this blog up, as is, for posterity's sake, since there are about 1,000+ posts on here.  But my attention will be on the new blog from now on, and I hope to grow it out and make it even better than this blog was.

You can check out the flagship post of the new blog by <a href="http://www.artofapproaching.com/blog/?p=4">clicking here</a>.

So update your bookmarks, bitches!  It's gonna be a bumpy ride...
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The Boys Of Summer

Hey guys,

I took a few weeks off from posting to enjoy the start of summer here in Los Angeles. it's my favorite time of year in the city. The sun shines bright, the city comes alive, and the girls come out in force! =)

I think its important to take time to enjoy life, and that's what I did. This summer promises to be a great one, and I hope all of you are taking advantage of it!

Thundercat

PS: Is anyone as psyched about seeing the new Superman movie as I am?
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Juggler on Anti-Slut Defense

Juggler has a new post up on his blog about Anti-Slut Defense.Juggler writes:ASD? What is really going on.

ASD is an oft-used term in the seduction community This is an acronym for Anti-Slut Defense. The idea behind this is that a woman will resist anything that makes her feel easy.

This is a common misunderstanding of women.

I happen to know many women who don't mind being sluts. Many who get off on being slutty.

A more helpful way of thinking about this concept is that a woman does not want to seem easy in people's eyes. If actually being easy fulfills her desires and no one who's opinion she values is the wiser she can usually live with her sutty self no problem.

ASD should really be called Anti-Desperate Defense. A woman just does not want to seem desperate to people, especially you and especially her friends. ie: throw herself at a man.

So how do you get her to unleash her inner-slut and let her feel free to be sexual with you?

You reveal your sexual interest first in a direct way (once you have created a personal vibe). "I think that the way you describe your poetry is sexy. You better stop that cause you're turning me on." (check out my ebook on more about these type of statements)

That sort of statement allows her to be flirty and sexual because she is not pursuing you in some desperate fashion but only reciprocating.

Now the interesting thing is that she may act sexual with you in a secluded corner of a seedy bar but as soon as she gets in front of her friends she can pull back into a guarded, platonic state.

That is because she knows her friends haven't heard you verbalize your attraction first. If she was to get all up on you, her friends would be presuming she is actind desperate. But the real interesting thing is that if you then verbalize your sexual interest in front of her friends it can sometimes unlock her and alow her to flirt openly in front of them because now she knows they know she is only reciprocating. Funny how that works.

Wayne
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